About Me

What You’ll Get

A focused supportive space to close the gap effectively from where you are now to where you want to be!

You will be supported to build your own resource, create more resilience, tap-in to your intuitive motivated self while effectively achieving the goals you want.

Understand how you operate as a unique individual, and why your hardwiring has been holding you back from creating your best ever relationship, – and how you can overcome it!

Understand why you can create a successful career and, or business / businesses but your relationship is not where you want, or thought it would be. Even though you may really want it..

You will be able to reflect in a safe, open supportive, and non-judgemental environment. Be given the time and space to understand you as your unique self, your life and what it has meant so far and what it means in relation to where and how you would like to be; while we work with tried and tested techniques supporting you towards living that life you deserve, with the relationship you never thought possible.

Get To Know Me

Hello, I’m Nigel Murray, a qualified Therapist, trained Life Coach. I specialise in working with successful business owners, professionals, high achieving in their professional lives, with challenges of course, but whose intimate relationships feel disconnected — rocky, fading, or no longer filled with the passion, ease, and energy they once had.

Through a mindful, orientated approach, I create a calm and focused space where we can slow down and work purposefully on what really matters. No guesswork. No vague theory. Just a grounded, tested path to rebuild connection, intimacy, and mutual understanding between you and your partner.

You may be thriving in your business or career, but struggling to bridge the emotional distance at home. You’re not alone — you’re not beaten, and you haven’t failed. You’re just now in the place you’re meant to be!

You’re just ready to realign your most important relationship with the person you once called your best friend.

My Philosophy

“The most important relationship we’ll ever have is the one we have with ourselves. And the most important person in my life is my wife/partner.”

– Nigel Murray

This core truth shapes our work. Together, we’ll explore the underlying dynamics, beliefs, and patterns that have silently shaped your relationship — using both practical tools and mindful presence. The goal is not just to fix, but to grow. To reconnect you with yourself, your values, and your partner — so both your relationship and your professional life thrive.

Whether you reside locally in on the South coast of England, Dorset, New Forest or surrounding area and can we meet face-to-face in Christchurch or work comfortably online across the UK or internationally, our time together will be grounded, intentional, and tailored to your personal goals.

My Journey

Before becoming a therapist in 2003, I served in the armed forces and worked in mechanical and aerospace engineering across Europe and Africa — from hands-on technical work to managerial leadership, working full time, moving countries, whilst studying; building my own business with a young family. I understand pressure, responsibility, and the quiet cost it can have on relationships.

But I’ve also rebuilt from the inside out. I’ve faced life’s challenges, made my share of mistakes, and learned what it means to grow from them. That personal transformation is what fuels my professional passion & purpose today.

I now live on the south coast of England with my wife and three grown children, still inspired daily by the balance between strong relationship and purposeful work.

Your in Safe & Respectful Hands

I am on an Accredited Register that has been accredited by the Professional Standards Authority and as such I am committed to high professional standards, to enhancing safety and delivering a better service.

The Accredited Register programme was set up by the Government to improve standards and safety for the benefit of the public.

I also hold the ‘Certificate of Excellence’ on Bark

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Robbins-Madanes Trained Life Coach
Certified NLP Practitioner
Diploma in Hypnotherapy
Advanced Diploma in Therapeutic Interventions
Accredited Member – National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
Registered – Professional Standards Authority
Accredited EFT & Acupressure Practitioner (EFT International)

Ready To Take The First Step?

If you’re ready to reignite the relationship with your partner and strengthen the one with yourself — without losing who you are or what you’ve built — I’d love to hear from you.

Let’s talk. Book a call or drop me a message today.